Doing what comes naturally!

Okay so this is going to sound simplistic but it works.  When life throws you those inevitable curve balls, the best thing might be to look at the that you like to do, and go from there.  Sometimes the easiest things to do can be found right in front of your face.  Re-inventing yourself can be fun if you decide to make it that way.  So what makes you happy?  Music, Art, Working with your hands, Public speaking, Writing, Cooking, Playing games, or Fixing things?  Are you a people person or would you rather not be involved with the public?  Do a little introspective inventory taking and make a list.  Just let your feelings rule the day for a while..
Now its time to be a bit creative in your thinking.  How can you incorporate those things that you like to do into your daily life?  If you are looking for work, match those things with the criteria for jobs that match.  Its much easier to work at a job you really like than drudge along at something you hate or even just tolerating. Believe me, I can really attest to that. I am fortunate enough to have come through exactly that kind of change and I love what I do now.
Maybe its not your job that is the issue.  Again go back to the list and adjust your thinking around it.   How can you bring more of those things into your personal life.  Odds are that if you are looking for love, you can probably find it in somebody with the same likes as you...right?  Would it not be easier to talk to someone you have things in common with? They say opposites attract but nothing could be further from the truth.  Energy welcomes like energy that is what the Law of Attraction is all about.
In these times it is necessary to be proactive, so get off your butt and start making things happen.  Good things really do not come to those who wait.  They come to those who put themselves in a position to receive them.
Be a receptor, not a spectator get in the game and play it for all you are worth.  Do what comes naturally and you will find happiness.